1. stable and dependable
2. makes me laugh/i can make him laugh
3. doesn’t have a temper/doesn’t yell
4. isn’t critical (in a mean way)
5. kind-hearted
6. tolerant
7. masculine
8. not overly sensitive, clingy, or moody
9. affectionate
10. smart, curious about things, likes learning.
11. rational
12. has interests
13. willing to go on adventures
14. likes snuggling
these things, in no order, are very necessary.